KAMA SUTRA LOVER"S RETREAT GIVEAWAY!!!

CONTEST CLOSED!!!

Would you like a vacation from Mommy?

A place to escape for just you two?

It seems the longer you've been together as parents, the more ingrained the parenting mode becomes. Even a romantic dinner alone isn't free of Mommy mode - the first crying baby you hear, or toddler having a tantrum, auto parenting kicks on.

It is nice however, to just be a lover, if only for a couple hours, in your own bedroom - a retreat, for just you two.


With Valentine's Day nearly upon us, romance is in the air. This giveaway tells you that any day can be a special lovers holiday for you and your special someone :))

GIVEAWAY :)))))) CONTEST CLOSED!!!

Who : Drew from Eden Fantasys has very generously offered one reader the chance to win a very special lovers retreat for just you two.

What : Bedside Lover's Tool Kit by Kama Sutra. A sampling of KamaSutra’s finest products in a beautifully handcrafted antique replica box. Discretely holds Oil of Love , Edible French Vanilla Body Soufflé , Love Liquid water-based Sensual Lubricant, Sweet Honeysuckle Honey Dust with a feather applicator in a pretty little box for your bedside table.

Where : You can purchase this wonderfully sensual kit at Eden Fantasys. Be sure to have a look around during your alone time - you can find all your intimate gifts, romantic gifts, sensual products, sensual gifts, discreet gifts, adult gifts, adult toys there. Weather you're looking for romantic, naughty, funny, or indulgent - Eden Fantasys has what you're looking for.

When : This contest will begin today Friday Feb, 13 - and will close Monday Feb.23 at 11:59 pm EST.

How : To enter, just comment here about how you step outside of Mommy mode and into being a lover. Give it a bit of thought please :)) You must complete this step to enter.


Extras

*Go to Eden Fantasys and tell us what you like about their site


*Leave a comment about how you would spend a night for just you two


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Good Luck to Everyone!! This has been a fun, laid back, no pressure experience thanks to Drew!! He's great!!

120 comments

lisawonbig said...

I put potential embarassment behind me and went to a local adult "lingerie" store. Keeping my husband's preferences in mind, I made a few purchases that I knew he'd appreciate. I then sent the kids over to friends houses for pre-arranged sleepovers. (I also took a nap during the day, so I wouldn't be so tired.) Set gentle mood music. We were ready to play.

MOMFOREVERANDEVER said...

well, its fun being an adult you know...the dangers of visits at the hospital when he is checked- yep nurse we are just cuddling- thats what skirts are especially great for :)
Yep if you don't get those naps there is a chance of falling asleep during a massage so be careful

MOMFOREVERANDEVER said...

went to the site and love the asst and the fun columns

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MOMFOREVERANDEVER said...

well we try to make romantic nights after the kids go to sleep and door locked...its hard but we try to have picnics in the bedroom and play for adults..maybe thats why we have been married over 25 years

*Meg Larsen* said...

music really helps me snap out of "mom" mode... I put on some sensual songs after the baby is down and let myself unwind for a few before I try to jump right into "love" mode!

naynays1 said...

Just being around my "Love" puts me in the mood. We try to coordinate schedules to have "our time" uninterrupted of course. And this sounds like something to add to the fun. : )

Nicole Ibarrondo said...

A glass (or bottle) of red wine always does the trick! Once in a while my husband practically begs me to drink, lol. I comply, so long as he agrees to wake up for my daughter in the morning. =)

mverno said...

i love being a mother i also love making love to my wonderful husband when the kids are asleep or away i slip into our love making world without a problem.in the bedroom i'm a different animal altogether so to speak

Fangirl Jen said...

Grown-up food, music, and a good bottle of wine can set the mood and mindset.

samsakara said...

I try to step out of mommy mode when the kids are asleep at night. It's the only time we usually get to be frisky. It don't take me long to get in the mood as opportunity's are far in between.

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danosor said...

Please enter me in this contest.I am a subscriber.

Stephanie said...

dressing up in nookie shoes and a sexy outfit, mood lighting, and hubby is happy.
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Creative Bears said...

Five minutes of kissing. I know it sounds stupid but it always works. It reminds me how much I love him and how much he loves me. It is an intimacy that I always enjoy and makes the rest of the world melt away.

cstironkat said...

Ship the kids to grandma's house and then we cook a special dinner together or go out. We split a bottle of wine, light the candles, and soft music completes the scene. I also slip into some sexy lingerie.

sphinx63 said...

After kids are asleep, we get in bed to watch tv. We cuddle up together and before I know it, the closeness puts me "in the mood"!

agordon10 said...

make him a favorite meal and drop the kids off at my parents,

divaqueenie said...

I leave little hints and special glances all day to build the excitement. Seeing my husband's face, watching him smile always puts me in the mood.

kdkdkd said...

It is easiest for me to step out of Mommy mode when the kids are sleeping (nap or night). Otherwise my mind is always on them

Samuel said...

That would be fun!

jayne said...

Candlelight, a bottle of wine-and lots of cuddling! I love the book selection!

409cope said...

Hubby and I have a date night once a month and aren't allowed to talk of our sons all evening. It's all about the two of us. cardshark42(at)hotmail(dot)com

Carolyn G said...

You have to make time for each other and enjoy the time you have. We have date night and I like to buy something nice and wear it just for him.

ewalsh said...

Write little erotic love notes and send them periodically, and let things build up naturally until one of you breaks and puts all of the kids to bed at 6:00 so that the games can begin.

This works best when the kids are still too small to know how to tell time by the way. Once it's dark, anytime can be bedtime.

Jessica said...

I always make time for my husband but it seems rushed and needs a little spice. We will get up in the middle of the night to have mommy and daddy time. This would help make our love life a little more exciting!

ktanjatk said...

Good wine with dinner and sexy lingerie & perfume...

Sharon said...

My kids are older...when I know they are out of the house for the evening I plan a romantic dinner...always with candles and always with nice silver, dishes etc...and great desert. Lights low music on, only 1 phone on (in case there is an emergency...)

Wehaf said...

Is it okay to enter if I am not a parent?

My partner and I focus on being in the moment, very mindful of everything we do, for hours. This awareness then carries over into our nighttime activities.

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DePro said...

Having date night so we can spend some time alone.

wendy said...

I make arrangements in advance for my mother or sister to take care of my daughter first, and then I plan some " us" time for me and my boyfriend. Sometimes it is as simple as watching TV on the couch; other times it is a nice dinner out.

Stef4916 said...

I step out of mommy mode every night at about 8:30 p.m. when the baby's sleeping. My husband and I still have the tradition of showering together on a nightly basis. We love the few hours we get together to be adventurous and do "adult" things...it's good to still be in love. stef4916@gmail.com

shalamaryta said...

Listening to a crazy and a "moody" music, thinking about him and then I am ready:))

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shalamaryta said...

I like the colors and shapes of the products.

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shalamaryta said...

I'd spend the night with a nice and sexy lingerie on me and also music, and of course with him:))

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Molly K said...

My husband and will exchange massage's and just the relaxing touch of my husband is enough to get my out of mommy mode and into lover mode.

Molly K said...

I really like that you can order online. It's always embarrasing to go into those type of stores. And that people that already have that product can rate it so you know what to expect.

Molly K said...

I became a follower.

Molly K said...

I think if we had a night alone I would love to spend it at home. Have a nice romantic candelight dinner, rent a romantic movie and then head to the bedroom for some adult time.

PS said...

We role play, which I never thought I would be into, but it is a lot of fun. Or I'll send the kids to Grandma's for lunch and meet my husband for "lunch". Or sometimes when I'm working late in the studio, he'll have grandma come over so he can pay me a visit-because usually when I'm working late, I'm also drinking fairly heavily-then it is a guarantee!

royaldixie said...

I am going to be completely honest with you and tell you that since I had a baby 11 months ago I have not wanted to step back into the role as lover just yet. I am still not able to be anything but Mommy. I am slowly adjusting to this new life but by winning this I hope to become my husband's wife again soon!

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Therese said...

I like to light a fire in the fireplace and put on something that makes me feel pretty.

mogrill said...

We put the kiddo to bed, light candles and dim the lights, put on some music and just spend the evening exploring eachother and relaxing. It is magic still...16 years later!!

Creative Mom said...

I take a bubble bath and slip into my sexiest outfit with 6 inch heels. I leave my mommy role behind and become a woman.


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Angela C said...

I like that they have a wide variety of toy's.

Angela C said...

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supermax said...

good bottle of wine

Carla said...

Well, I'm not a mom (yet!) but I have two dogs, one of which was abused and is very needy. Plus, I'm my fiance and I are both very busy students. To go from the caring for the dogs and being very professional and studious at school, to being in a sexy mood I usually work out to relieve stress and then get a shower. It's refreshing and I feel renewed!

Miss Blondie said...

After my son is asleep, we'll get right in the sack. But if we're really feeling dangerous, we lock the bathroom door and take a shower or bath together!

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paula h said...

We try to put the kids to bed early in the evening. Then we either watch a tv show that we've recorded or talk all while cuddling under a blanket on the couch. That really helps. We also like to take showers or baths together.

It'll be better soon when my husband finishes redoing the downstairs bedroom. Right now our son is in our bedroom and the other kids are next door in the other bedroom.

Lee Allport said...

My husband and I like to cuddle up on the couch. Sex is the furthest thing from my mind most of the time but this helps warm me up!

Lee
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Lee Allport said...

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Lee Allport said...

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Lee Allport said...

I don't know if this is what you are looking for, but if I got a night alone with my husband I'd want to rent a movie and cuddle to get us both in the mood, you know, dirty cuddling. LOL

Lee
leechrista @ gmail dot com

Sonya said...

My husband and I like to keep each other on edge all day, and then the night are way fun :)

Becky said...

Wow that's hard to step out of the mommy mode when you have a 14 year old who stays up later than you do..I usually ask someone to watch the kids, send the 14 year old to the movies and slowly seduce the hubs.

anarchafemina said...

i think the only time i step out of mommy mode is when i've put the little one to sleep. it's very hard at times but i consider myself blessed to never have had a huge problem with it.

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anarchafemina said...

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anarchafemina said...

for a night out, i would drop my child off at the babysitters or at my mom's and book a hotel for the two of us. that will keep me IN bed and away from having to do any household chores LOL.

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rosannepm said...

Finding unusual places for it. Actually this is my husbands idea, such as pull off to side of road in a car, in a park, college campus etc

rosannepm said...

One ofthe items I likea ttheir site was Leau a deux

rosannepm said...

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rosannepm said...

If I had a choice how we'd spend the night it would be in another country walking going out to an outdoor cafe to eat-forget the sex

dn6511 said...

I put on a leather outfit, grab a riding crop and let er rip!

Dree said...

I switch modes by taking a bubble bath.

Dree said...

I love the sexy nurse outfit.

jennem said...

I send my daughter to Grandma's for the weekend. Seriousy, it takes me at least 12 hours of detox time to get out of Mom mode, since she's having sleep issues lately and you NEVER know when she's going to walk in! And I break out the "good" underwear.
Jennifer, jennem22 at yahoo dot com

Dani' said...

That is what going to grandma's house is for. The kids don't go as much as they used to but do more sleepovers at friends' houses. So there is that.
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Dani' said...

poked *snicker* around on Eden Fantasys and read the blog. I like the Earthly Delights kit too.

Dani' said...

dh and I spent our night together recently. We stayed at a Bed and Breakfast cottage for a few days and got an hour long couple's massage.

Dani' said...

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happishopr said...

I run a hot bubble bath, put on some super sexy music and have a glass of wine. trinitygsd at yahoo dot com

idahodad7 said...

We meet at home for lunch because the kids are at school.

Liza767 said...

I take a long relaxing bath but on perfume and make-up and a sexy slinky nighty and when i walk in front of hubby he says lets go to bed *wink wink*

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Marianna said...

A nice date night away from the kids always gets us going and reminds us how much we love each other, emotionally and physically! Sometimes you need some ALONE time to get the batteries re-charged!

Lolita said...

A warm, candle lit shower followed by just a hint of perfume and then slipping into something silky and elegant.

And then hope the kids stay sleeping in their beds. :)

jo1brat said...

we have a naked night at home every other Friday night we send kids to Grandma's house. Usually I make a nice candlelight dinner and well use your imagination after that LOL

jceko77 said...

I leave the "Mommy" in me outside of my bedroom door; once in the bedroom, everything revolves around the goal of "getting some" :)
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andrea v said...

we put the kids down early then I run a hot bath in our jet tub and light candle throughout are bathroom.

madangle said...

nice music, soft lighting and good smells in the bedroom put us both in touch with each other

Minxy Mimi said...

I like that the lingerie comes ion plus sizes!
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Joyce said...

A glass of wine, some candles, and my husband's fingers stroking my hair. That's pretty much all it takes! :)

Naddez said...

My husband and I will watch a movie in bed, at times holding hands other times I might caress his neck as the movie play. This will definitely get the wheels turning.


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Naddez said...

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Heather M said...

I slip out of mommy mode when my daughter goes to sleep! She goes down at 8 and we go to bed at 12 so there's plenty of time for play!! We usually just go into the bedroom and watch some Adult "TV" and then let it roll!! It's nice sometimes to let go of mommy mode! Thanks

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Heather M said...

I like that their site is so organized! It's easy to find whatever you want! thanks!

Kate said...

It helps to slip out of your adult 'mommy wear' and into something super sexy and ridiculous :)

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jacaclawless said...

Not a mom here, but a parent nonetheless! We just try to make a conscious effort to have consistent date nights and "us" time - it's tough sometimes, but always worth it to me!

lisalmg said...

It's really hard to slip out of mommy mode for me because I have a daughter who suffers from bad night terrors and sleepwalks so there's never a night where I can completely leave being a mommy behind. I try to give myself at least one night a month off and have my family watch the children so we can be completely alone. Then with a little makeup, doing my hair and putting on my best outfit it's easier to step out of my mom mode. Thanks!
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lisalmg said...

My favorite thing about EdenFantasy's site is the sex toy reviews. It make's me feel a lot more comfortable and confident in my purchases. Thanks!
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Mollie G. said...

Oddly enough, on Sunday mornings, just the sound of the bedroom door lock turning will get him UP -- and the kids are settled in with breakfast and their electronic diversions, so WE are undisturbed for some Private Time.

cathy2406 said...

On really tired days it may be hard to get started, but once you do the endorphins take over and do the rest!ashlyn@chuparkoff.com

MindPulse said...

well I'm a dad...but I try to get my wife to step out of the moommy mode by helping to make sure the kids are taken care of and all the chores are done so we can focus on more fun stuff.

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flared0ne said...

"Enlightened self interest" has clued me in that the best ways I can help her slip out of "Mommie" mode involve doing household chores for her, like cleaning up the kitchen and folding laundry, and THEN (after making sure everyone else is comfortably ensconced with their homework or video games) a locked door and some hot-oil-massage works wonders!

flared0ne said...

Nice reviews on their site -- it helps to see what other people have to say about some of the items available.

flared0ne said...

The biggest difference in having a night just for us two (kids at sleep-overs elsewhere) tends to be the freedom to put on some mood music, and then later to be unrestrainedly expressive (i.e., noisy, etc) without concerns about "tap-tap-tap... are you okaaay?", etc.

Mollie G. said...

On their site: it's nice to have a rating system (ahem!) and reviews to help figure out what 'works' for other people.

purango said...

I take a romantic bubble bath. Let my hair down. Dress up in a fabulous outfit. Prepare a meal and champagne for my husband and me. Cgange into my lover's voice a purr or growl. garrettsambo@aol.com

collyn23 said...

i put the kids to bed then i sit down with my hubby and cuddle and even play around like kids to get the whole interacton thing going on then we cuddle

collyn23 said...

i love how easy their site is to navigaTE and how much good stuff they have

collyn23 said...

a night for just us i love to spend it with a candle light dinner and cuddle with a movie

John Deal said...

They have some items that might give my partner some ideas. AztecFeller@aol.com

CastAwayCreation said...

I left my dignity behind and went into a Hustler store with my guy this weekend... *whew* The first floor was fun, Hustler shirts and hats and some really cute corsets. The second floor was better, costumes and panties and some blindfolds and whips. The third floor!! Well, let's leave that to your imagination, cause nothing in that store was left to mine!!!

rlgrady said...

I like to set the mood by having a relaxing bath, then lighting a candle and playing some music. I know, it's been done before, but it works!

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krstlcmpbll said...

I try to make sure that the bedroom is clear of things belonging to the kids

ZESTYWONDERLAND said...

We go camping. Things get pretty hot in our tent!
Just love the outdoors & the smells & sounds of nature.
Makes me feel like an animal........lol!

ZESTYWONDERLAND said...

I follow you on blogger!

Helen said...

Red wine, candles, music and some new lingerie puts me in the mood.

lilyk said...

I make an effort to spend quality time alone with my significant other.

lilyk said...

I love the Aromatherapy indulgence!

lilyk said...

We would go to a fancy dinner at an upscale restaurant.

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